Fairly Social

Be social, on your own terms.

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Fediverse education & tutoring

Tired of being the product?

There’s a better way to be social online — one where you own your data, choose your community, and no algorithm decides what you see next. I’ll show you how.

No algorithms. · No paid placement. · No one harvesting your data. · Just people, connecting freely.

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What is the Fediverse?

Corporate social media locks you inside its walls and harvests your data. The Fediverse is different — a collection of independent social networks that talk to each other, run by individuals and cooperatives instead of corporations. Think of it like email: you pick where you want to be, and your connections come with you if you ever want to move.

“I don’t really like being the product — and I don’t need someone telling me what I should see next.”

It’s not as simple as logging into Facebook and having people recommended to you. It takes a little more work — and I’m more than willing to help you get there. Read more about how I got here →

Photo by Marek Piwnicki

The process

Three steps to getting started

Doing something different is a significant mental shift. I’ll meet you exactly where you are, at whatever pace works.

Tell me your goals

Fediverse setup, privacy basics, self-hosting, or Linux — start exactly where you are. No technical background required, no judgment.

Learn with guided support

Calm, practical tutoring that builds real confidence. I’m not judging where you’re starting from — I was there too.

Leave with next steps

Clear, actionable follow-ups you can actually use — and someone to reach when new questions come up.

What I teach

Practical skills for a freer, more sustainable digital life. Every topic taught from scratch — no prior knowledge assumed.

Most popular

Fediverse onboarding

Friendica, Mastodon, Pixelfed, XMPP — options and choices, without being locked inside someone else’s walls. I’ll help you find the right fit and get set up.

Privacy

Security & privacy basics

Password management, two-factor authentication, encrypted messaging — without fear or confusion. You don’t need to understand everything to stay safer.

Advanced

Self-hosting

I run my own Friendica and Matrix servers using YunoHost — and I can help you do the same. Build your own online spaces without corporate involvement.

Sustainability

Linux & sustainable computing

Many laptops that can’t run Windows 11 are still excellent machines. Linux keeps older hardware useful longer and reduces electronic waste.

No pressure

At your own pace

Step away from the algorithm deciding what you see next. I’m not judging where you’re starting from — personal guidance whether you’re a complete beginner or ready to go deep.

Community

Sustained by support

Donations go directly to keeping the lights on. No investors. No ads. No corporate involvement — just people helping people find their footing.

The blog

News, walkthroughs, and ideas from around the Fediverse

Written for curious people, not just tech enthusiasts.

  • I Can Support Your Event

    I’ve been talking about the Fediverse, digital privacy, and sustainable computing for a while now — mostly in one-on-one conversations and the occasional blog post. A few people have suggested I should be doing it in front of a larger audience. I think they’re right. I’m available to speak at community events, library programs, tech…

  • Social Media and the Fediverse

    In the last few years, my patience for social media has been waning.  I do like to keep in touch with people up to a point but the constant onslaught of targeted advertising, the monitoring of every click, and the algorithm deciding what I’m going to see next has taken it’s toll.  I’ve discovered that I don’t…

  • Quick Fediverse 101

    There are many videos and articles describing the pros and cons of the Fediverse from different views and perspectives. My opinion is that they all roll-up into a few main points. If you prepare for and learn how to deal with these three things, the Fediverse can become a great place to be. I intend…

Get started

If you want to know more about the Fediverse, I’m more than willing to help.

You may not see me on corporate social media as often — but I’m still around, and I’d love to show you what’s on the other side of the wall.